Our kids are our future, how many times have you heard that statement? If you are a parent this may make obvious sense to you. If you are young and without offspring, the import of this declaration may not be quite so relevant to your current perspective. Ultimately, we cannot escape from our biological imperative, which is to propagate the species. Everything else in life sits atop the chemical reality of our existence. Love is a behavioural response to hormonal changes within us, generated by things like sexual attraction and the nurturing instinct following childbirth. Ignoring these biological realities, when discussing these issues culturally is a mistake.
Too Ready to Deny Our Physical Selves
Too often I see dissertations on love without reference to the basis upon which it exists within us as human beings. We are all too ready to deny our physical selves and elevate our feelings to some pseudo spiritual peak. All of our religious doctrines and the later new age pastiche have aspired to teach us to live above our natures as biological animals. Perhaps, we can lay the blame at Plato’s feet. This desperate desire to see the soul and deny the flesh and blood before our eyes has blinded us to what it is to take responsibility as human beings.
Health, Education & Nurturing Love
Our kids are our future and they are human beings, not indigo spirits or any other romanticised vision. Building strong foundations of health, education and nurturing love, will serve our children best. Put away the poppycock of supernatural entities and spiritual mumbo jumbo. Healthy kids are balanced kids. We need to embrace the realities of biological life and stop shying away from life and death truths. The time for fairy tales and bedtime stories is over, for anyone over 9 YO. What they hear, must be understandable.
Miracles Do Not Exist
We owe it to our children to prepare them for the realities of life. Silly stories about things that didn’t really happen, do not serve their interests in the long run. Miracles do not exist, and people do not come back from the dead. There is no proof of any paradisiacal afterlife and there never can be. Feed your children good healthy food, the truth, and no nursery rhymes about religious fictions. Our kids are our future; and this planet deserves respectful, intelligent and compassionate beings to inhabit it. Honour your human beingness!